What really stops us from fulfilling our dreams? What separates the people who know they want more out of life from those who have it all? It's as simple as believing in yourself. The concept of positive thinking is not a new one. I think deep down we all know that transmitting good thoughts will attract positive and promising situations in our lives. This is explained simply enough in many different belief systems such as the Law Of Attraction, The Seth Material, most major religions and countless other lines of thought where an "instant karma" effect takes place. Positive attracts positive and negative attracts negative. Sounds simple enough, right? It's just an easy thought process that is enriching, rewarding and doesn't cost a dime. So why isn't everyone thinking this way? Why isn't creating a positive reality for ourselves full of riches and opportunities "all the rage"? For some, thinking positive thoughts and believing in themselves can be next to impossible.
Why does it seem so difficult to think positive thoughts? Why is negativity so easy compared to positive thinking? The Law of Attraction states that positive thoughts expand energy attracting more positive influence from the Universe, and negative thoughts constrict energy reducing the flow of positive influence back to you. I believe that both positive and negative thoughts originate from the same part of the brain. Both take the same amount of energy to produce the desired results and outcomes. Heaven on Earth is a real place easily created with just a thought. It is just as easily created as the "Living Hell" that so many find themselves in everyday. Have you ever tried to make a miserable person happy? It is quite the task. Negative people make all the excuses in the world to hang desperately on to the negative thought process:
* "You don't know what it was like for me growing up"
* "No matter what I do or think, something bad always happens"
* "I always seem to make a bad choice, affecting my relationships, job opportunities, and personal growth"
* "You were just born happy......I'm not like that."
* "You are just lucky.......I'm not"
* "I used to be happy, but that person doesn't exist anymore"
* "How can I be happy after all that has happened?"
* "Easy for you to say...you're not me."
Negative thinking people are in no hurry to change their thought process anymore quickly than positive people want to be miserable.
Who in the world wants to feel the hurt, guilt, and depression of a "Living Hell"? I know I don't. But for some, it is a comfort zone. Negativity is a valid and viable emotional thought process that is equal in its power to positive thinking and its need to be expressed. The Universe is made up of light and dark, yin and yang, up and down, back and forth, negative and positive. It is perfectly and completely balanced. On an atomic level, negative and positive ions are the perfectly balanced building blocks of life and matter.
They attract each other for a mutual gain. Negativity is a valid expression of thought. And negative people are expressing an important and valid emotional process that they have to experience to be balanced. Not just balanced within themselves, but balanced with all the positive expressing people they share this Universe with. If everyone all thought the same way, how would we realize how precious and needed our own thinking would be? More easily put, how would we appreciate all the good things if there were no bad things to compare it to?
In our enlightened, yet desperate attempts to spread the word of positive thinking, reality creation, and attracting happiness, we need to understand our whole selves. There is no right or wrong thinking... we are just expressing whichever thought process that we have to in this life, at this moment, and in this incarnation to be balanced. Our soul has to experience every aspect of the human condition to be whole and complete. Opposite energies create the precious opportunities to appreciate all that the Universe has to offer. Negative thought need not be changed, but embraced.
All thoughts, good or bad, are equally powerful and need to be experienced for completeness of soul. Negative people are attracting negative energy to themselves, it's true. But when the pendulum swings on it's own to the other side, which it always does, the same people will have new experiences to learn, to live, and to complete their "Earthly duties." Their souls will be more complete and make our Universal awareness and appreciation that much sweeter. Embrace whichever thought process you are experiencing in the Now, revel in the power of reality creation, and paint your next moment of where you need to go to make your life complete and perfect!
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For nearly 20 years one man, Colin Martin, has searched for and found the number one secret to building an exceptional romantic relationship. The answer doesn't lie in the endless volumes of self help books and repetitive talk shows ....but within yourself!
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