How the Law of Attraction Helps You Create the Most Fabulous Life

Most people think of the law of attraction as the beginning. Are you one of those people? If you worry about every single thought that runs through your mind you can relax. The law of attraction is not there to punish you for 5B4every weak or negative thought that you have had.

What is amazing about the law of attraction is that it allows you to be the leader. It allows you to decide what it is you first wish to have or what you first wish to become.

The rule with the law of attraction is that it does not matter where you came from. It does not matter where you want to go. It only matters where you are. Where you are now in this moment is the most crucial step in deciding what you will continue to attract.

With that said, do you see what is most important? It is more important that you first become what you want now. And, by that you don't need to have anything to be fabulous besides your own clear intention and the power of your mind.

As long as you know how to experience the feeling of already being fabulous, happy and living in abundance only then can you attract those conditions.

So you can be completely poor and uneducated and all you need to have is a clear desire to live the way you want.

You must alter your mind by allowing it to become receptive and ready for change and ready to activate the experiences that you want by making it become more alive and more present.

Can you imagine your life being completely differently two months from now? How about manifesting all the money you desire to experience all the things that you greatly desire?

You can experience intensely magical results by aligning you465rself with the mystical powers of the universe and watching as the law of attraction brings it all together effortlessly.

Do you know that there are ancient techniques that can increase your manifesting intentions and attract what you want even faster than ever? Visit http://www.cosmic-wealth.com/lawofattraction to learn more about these secrets teachings. Daniel Hinds is the author of the powerful ebook Magic Money.

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What Are You Thinking?

You made a decision, you desire is to change your life, maybe a little, maybe a lot, it doesn't matter, you are going to change and whether you know it or not, your decision just had a profound impact on the whole universe! From your spouse, kids, family, closest friends and someone clear across the world, we, you and I are connected by our thoughts.

You've all heard "you get what you think about" well it's true, Your Thoughts Create Your Life! Once you understand this and imbed it in your subconscious, you will pay attention to your thoughts and start to see changes in your life, sometimes right away! These changes can be good or bad depending on what your thinking. Now that you know this, you will guard thoughts. Thinking is the hardest thing we will ever do. To think thoughts from what we see on the outside is not thinking. You must think thoughts from the inside, what is it you desire to see on the outside-that is thinking, and that is the hardest thing to do according to Wallace Wattles in his book, "The Science of Getting Rich" The Good news is, you will get good at this and be amazed as things start to show up from your thoughts. You will start to recognize the little things and when you do, you will feel immense gratitude toward your God or Source!

Now I know we all have off days, everyone does. It is a part of life. I think it was President Nixon who said," You can't experience the magnificence of the mountain without experiencing the depths of the valleys" If we didn't have low times we wouldn't know what high times were like. When your feeling down, know that better days are coming.

I also believe in affirmations. I have this posted above my computer. Good things happen to me everyday, I expect miracles! I look for little things as I go through my day as well as larger things and I give thanks. I know it sometimes isn't easy, but if you try it it really works. It's like a staircase, as your life improves, your learning and growing and moving up. That is the riser in the staircase. You are feeling good! You then have an off day or some hard times, that is the step. Your not going backwards your at plateau or just taking a breather. Focus on better days and you will attract them. This i9C5s one of the seven laws of the universe, The Law of Rythm, The tide goes out the tide comes in. When your experiencing a downswing know that good times are coming, focus on those!

One more thing I learned, If you focus on a good experience from the past and hold that thought for approximately 68 seconds it will take you to better thought and so on. The better it gets the better it gets! That is from Esther and Jerry Hicks, "Ask and it is Given" Another great book. It also helps to look up at the ceiling or the sky, that puts your body in a happier grateful form.

Make it a Great Day!

Tony Laufenberg

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The Speed Readers

How To Conquer The Writers Limiting Challenge To The Speed Reader!
By: Joe Okoro




In a bid to present their opinion in a way that people will appreciate, some writers fail to clearly state and properly define the meaning of their write-ups. For a speed reader, it is a different ball game altogether as this can slow down the reading rate of any speed reader, hence challenging his efficacy at reading. This is consequent to the fact that the speed reader's ability to move on to the next paragraph or sentence depends on his comprehension of the previous ones.

Let's take a look at the following scenario:

For Instance:

Man is an end product of the baboons.

It is clear that the meaning of the above sentence is that man is the product of evolution according to science.

It is a common knowledge that science always seeks facts to back up their propositions or theories. That notwithstanding, anyone telling me that i'm baboon should be ready to clearly clarify that statement with pure facts.

Now lets compare the following statement.

Evolutionary Theory: This is the gradual process to development leading to a better future.

The Theory Of Creation: This is the production of conception, which ultimately results to nature and life.

Did you notice how a speed reader can be challenged in the above two statement? A speed reader who is a fact finder can pay attention to the meaning of those statement thus limiting or inhibiting his speed rate.

Whereas if the above two facts are stated in a different way, it can still come out clean without too much attention paid to decipher the meaning of each of them. Let's take a look at another way the same two statements above can be expressed without limiting the speed readers rate:

"Over time and again, science has tried to use all forms of theories to explain that all humankind are products of evolution, yet there is an overwhelming evidence that these theories are unfounded and can not be proven and that all evidence points to creation as the only reliable proof that the human race must be from the creation theory. Hence all created things have similar natural qualities and features.

There are other types of writers who are liberal in their writing. They make sure that whatever they write has a backing of the truth. Something that can be proven. However, these types of writers can equally challenge the speed readers ability to read faster. Let's review some sentences of a liberal writer see how it can help your speed reading rate.

"A lot of lies has been told and these lies has consequently proven to cause problems, yet people continue to tell lies. Obviously, people have ignored the Bible's admonition that “Truth can set you free” and lies keep on progressing like never before.

Let's test the comprehension level.

Inspite of the Bible's claim for freedom for those who tell the truth, people continue to tell lies.

A look at the above statement shows that it is a liberal write up. A statement backed up by facts, evidence makes reading an ease when it is considered by the speed reader.

In your spare time, you can briefly go over these write ups and check grammar rules and consistency. Practice reading the two types of write ups i have been talking about and you will improve your speed reading rate over time.


About The Author

Joe Okoro writes about Speed Reading in his free reports. You can sign up for his courses and get additional information by visiting: http://speedreadingguideonline.com

Caregivers and the Challenge - Asking for Help

Caregivers, like many of us, have grown up in this culture that says asking for help is a weakness. Some of us have grown up in chaotic environments where we never learned to trust enough to ever depend on anyone else.

The Self-Sufficient, that’s what I've called the individual who suffers from Self-Sufficiency Syndrome, takes on too much, is overly responsible, and does everything all by herself.

Enter the greatest challenge thus far – giving care to someone in our lives we’re very close to and now need us in a whole new way. All of our Self-Sufficient characteristics kick in:

1. Asking for help makes us look weak and vulnerable
2. We look like we’re not up to the task
3. We would feel guilty
4. We’d be putting our responsibility on someone else
5. Looking strong and able is the ultimate goal no matter what

Remember that old saying: when the student is ready, the teacher will come? Maybe this challenge is just the one that will force you to grow in a whole new way. We are social animals. We were never meant to do it alone. And certainly not when caring for someone else as well!

Then how can we break this self-defeating behavior at a time that calls for all the strength and fortitude we possess? One of my very favorite quotes is by Ambrose Redmon, “Courage is not the absence of fear- it’s deciding something is more important than the fear.”

So what’s our fear? Many of them are contained in that 5 item list I’ve already given – that you won’t measure up. What’s more important than those fears? That your loved one receives the best possible care and you emerge from this experience intact. Without help, you won’t!

How do you break years of habitual behaviors? You don’t. You follow William James, the great philosopher’s advice and “act as if” you believe that you should ask for help and James tells us one morning you’ll wake up and believe it.

1.Realize that when you ask for help, you’re giving someone else a gift-the dignity of helping YOU! Those around you don’t want to watch you struggle alone. Give them a gift!

2.One of the key problems for the Self-Sufficient is giving up control. It’s scary. A way to maintain a modicum of control is to let others know exactly what they can do to help. It’ll create a win/win and let you still maintain some control.

3.That hole in your tongue from not saying, “no thanks” will heal much more quickly than the burnout you’ll experience if you do.

4.Keep your eye on the fact that the person you’re caring for will receive a higher quality of care because you come to your responsibility having had an opportunity to get away occasionally or have support and assistance when you need it.

5.Wouldn’t it be miraculous if this experience supplied you with the knowledge and tools to grow as a person, so that you come through it more self-developed, feeling more loved, more cherished than you ever have before? There’s that opportunity. You just have to be the one to open the door.

Peggy Collins is the author of Help Is Not a Four-Letter Word: Why Doing It All Is Doing You In, published by McGraw-Hill. She’s also a professional speaker and trainer. You can contact her at http://www.helpisnotafourletterword.com For a weekly TIP for ASKING for HELP, go to her website.

Your Key To High Self Esteem

Personal Identity -

If you want to achieve anything in life you need a good amount of self confidence. In order to succeed at anything you need a realistic self image. But in order to have either of these you need a good degree of self esteem. Do you know what it is and how to get it?

Self esteem begins with a positive self-image. This involves holding a balanced yet loving, approving and healthy self-view. Having said that, this character trait is neither arrogance nor is it narcissistic self-love. True self esteem gives us a balanced realistic appreciation for our own talents. It allows us honest introspection of our strengths and a complete acceptance of our human limitations. High self esteem is a reflection of the true value in which you hold yourself. It also frees you from any overtly polarized view of others and how you perceive they think of you.

Those people who display traits of high self-esteem have a very strong sense of who they are. They know who they are and what they want. They have a realistic world view of others and themselves. Their self-image is positive but also very rational.

However, do not think that people with high self esteem always feel great and proud of themselves. Self esteem is about having a balanced view of yourself. Even people with high self esteem make mistakes and do things that they later regret. The key difference with these people is that they recover quickly make the changes they need to make, apologize for their behaviour where necessary and learn from the experience. Individuals who have developed a healthy degree of self-esteem are able to use these situations as a form of feedback and learn from them. It is alright to feel bad about their behaviour and make atonement for it but they do not let it effect their entire sense of identity nor do they carry it with them as emotional baggage.

If you are rude or aggressive with a person it doesn't mean you are a terrible person or should be punished in some way. People with high self esteem are aware of this. These people are capable to taking full responsibility for their behaviour, admitting that it was undesirable. They will then try to make the situation "right" before they learn from it and put it behind them. They do not see themselves as bad people, just a good person that made a bad mistake. However, people with low self esteem tend to pile blame on themselves and think themselves unworthy and unlovable because they are "so bad" and "so unworthy and worthless".

They think because they have behaved badly it is a reflection of the total person they are when, in fact, it is only one portion of the complex personality they have. People with high self-esteem have a well-rounded view of themselves. They mostly know their own weaknesses and faults. However, because they know this they can either accept that this is a part of who they are or they can change the thing about themselves that they find undesirable. People with high self esteem can do this relatively easily because they don't see a change in one aspect of their character as an assault on their whole personality! So they can still have self criticism but also have high self-esteem at the same time.

A key to being in this mental and emotional state is to avoid generalising about mistakes made by ourselves and others, recognising that our weaknesses are part of who we are, while recognising that some of our behaviour can be changed without it affecting our sense of identity!

So start to see yourself as those who love you see you. Ask them what they think. Ask them to be realistic and to point out your good characteristics. Then take stock of yourself and start to believe in yourself. You can develop the skills needed to be critical of yourself, in order to learn and grow, while at the same time realizing that you are a unique, special, loving yet slightly flawed child of the Universe. You are wonderful. Accept that!

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Numerology Compatibility With Life Path Number 2

1 and 2:

The nice thing about this combination is that one will be a leader and another will be a follower. A 2 is often submissive to a 1 and may endeavor to change his or her entire life in order to be with the submissive 1. However although the 2 does not mind being the power behind the throne she or he may feel hurt by the 1's total's attention to his or her career.

It may also be quite hard for the 2 to understand why the 1 must include an entire community in his or her relationship. 2's thrive on one on one interactions and the 1's love the spotlight. The 2 may be a nest for the 1 only to find out that he or she is never home to enjoy it.

2 and 2:

These 2 understand each other completely. If there is any problem at all with the relationship it is that they may get too close and exclude the outside world altogether. However in general this is a perfect pairing in which to others the two lovers will seem like "two peas in a pod." They are such soulmates that they may even look alike!

The only danger of this combination is codependency. One 2 will not leave another no matter how badly the other is behaving. The result can be an abusive relationship. This couple may be so devoted to each other that it is suffocating. Although infidelity is rare in these relationships, alcoholism and other problems are not. Two 2's together may feel like they are somehow trapped together in a situation that will never have any resolution.

2 and 3:

If the 2 is devoted enough to the 3 then this relationship can work. Like the 1 relationship, the 2 has to settle for being in the background or just being the power behind the throne. However for this to work it must be understood completely that the 2 is working in the service of the 3 and otherwise does not have a life. As most 2's love this type of devotion it can work quite well.

The main problem with this relationship is likely to be infidelity. A 3 finds it hard to settle down with just one person and most of them and may feel quite smothered by the 2. It is possible as well that the 2 may be slightly more in love with the 3 than vice versa. Furthermore the 2 may feel constantly threatened by the popularity and social invitations that seem to come naturally to a 3.

2 and 4:

A 4 usually leads a fairly challenging life and benefits greatly from the care of a loving 2. The 2 likes to have a mission when it comes to people and they make a good rescuer for the 4. This is good for the 4 who does not have to worry about being abandoned by the 2.

The upside for the 2 about being with a 4 is that they are so unfortunate in one way or another that the 2 never has to worry about the 2's worst nightmare – infidelity. The 4 will always be too busy, too challenged or too needy to be unfaithful and others will not usually see the 4 partners as suitable.

2 and 5:

The 5 is not the best romantic combination as the 2 usually wants to make a nest and settle down and the 5 may be more into travel and adventure. Many 2's may feel attracted to 5's because they are so romantic and dashing but the problem is that the 5 is more destined to have a series of relationships rather than just 1 during the entire course of a life.

Although these two numbers get along, the 2 will often feel lonely as the 5 may never be at home. Furthermore a 5 may never be able to supply the 2 with the emotional reassurance that the relationship will last forever.

2 and 6:

This is not a bad combination as both numbers are very family oriented. This is definitely a pairing that can result in children and a happy marriage with a long line of descendents.

The problem with this combination is usually due to a family member that somehow serves to distract the 6 from his relationship with a 2. Usually this problem manifests as a needy ex-spouse that drains financial resources, an overbearing parent or a situation where the 2 and 6 are destined to live with the extended family. This does not make the 2 that happy because they like all of the focus to be on them.

2 and 7:

Although it does not seem like this relationship can work, it does sometimes. The introverted 7 often brings out the nurturer in the 2. The 2 may make drawing the often shy 7 out of his or her shell a life-long noble mission. Or the 2 may decide that it is worth sacrificing intimacy and emotional gratification in order to support a genius.

For the most part 2's and 7's really don't get along that well as the 2 usually becomes impatient with the brilliant 7's emotional retardation. The 7 may also feel that the 2's reliance on feeling is too much or not be interested in the 2's desire to have children.

2 and 8:

2's and 8's make great partners. This is because both are completely into the concepts of mating for life and building a foundation that will last a lifetime. The result of this union is usually wealth, health, prosperity and lots of children.

The only downside is that sometimes the 8 gets too busy to spend a lot of time with the 2 which can make the 2 feel lonely. An 8 may feel occasionally smothered by a 2 who is asking them to drop their ambitions for a few hours so the two can spend more quality time together.

1 and 9:

A 9 is a challenging relationship for a 2 mainly because a 9 is so self-absorbed that there is little room for the 2's needs and concerns. Although a 9 is a spiritual number it can also signify a person who is moody, troubled and faced with a difficult path in life that in some ways qualifies it as more of a loner number.

Usually with a 2 and a 9 the 2 becomes some kind of phase in the 9's life. Usually the thing that splits them up is some form of jealousy, addiction or codependency.

B Gorman, Master Numerologist of http://www.123Numerology.com/ to be consulted for your free numerology reading.The Collaborative Humanistic Workplace